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"Our hearts are broken, our world seems like it has ended. Our dreams, our hopes and our future with this child are over. Our precious child has died."  Empty Arms By Sherokee Ilse.

We are so very sorry for the loss of your precious baby, we extend our love and support to you at this time. We understand your pain, we have been there too. We have also found a way through our grief, found a path that carried us forwards towards healing. It is our deepest wish to share with you some of the ways we found helpful, supportive, nurturing and healing. 

We recognise that everyone grieves differently, what we offer you here are simply suggestions, please take what resonates with you and leave anything that doesn't evoke in you a sense of healing.

This pain of loss is the price we pay for loving, and with time this pain will transform into its original source - that of deep love and joy - I believe this, I am living it, and so can you.


Wishing you all deep healing and may grace travel with you on your journey.... xxx

Tears have a wisdom all their own. 
They come when a person has relaxed enough to let go
 and to work through her sorrow. 
They are the natural bleeding of an emotional wound, 
carrying the poison out of the system.
Here lies the road to recovery.

~ F. Alexander Magoun



October 15th International Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Day + Global Wave of Light
We are very grateful to Scott and Claire for their generous hospitality in hosting us for our annual Remembrance Celebration. We invite you to join us for a very special evening remembering and celebrating all our babies and children gone to soon.
On this special date, we will light candles and be part of the global wave of light around the world. It will be an evening of remembering and honouring our babies, sharing and connecting with those who have travelled this path and those who help us to travel it. 
If you would like to come along, please join our event on Facebook - to help us prepare for accommodating you.

Doors open 6pm please come early to allow time for candle lighting and putting an angel on our remembrance tree in memory of your baby or child. 
There will be tea and coffee afterwards and time to talk and connect with each other.
We hope to see you there, message or email Val with any questions you may have, I will do my best to answer -

We understand that some of you may wish to join us for the Remembrance Celebration but be unable to attend - with this in mind we would like to offer you a way to include your precious babies too. If you send us their name in an email we will honour them by lighting a candle for them and speaking their name with all our babies during the ceremony.
United we honour our precious ones, together we help each other to heal.
Love and blessings, Val x x x